In an era where hate speeches and random insults are the norm of the day, where do you draw the line? And when it is someone close, how do you overcome the fear of losing them? How to deal with people who hurt you? Do you have someone in your life, around whom it is […]
Is marriage primarily about being happy as the world portrays it? Or is marriage a road to holiness? Read on to know how marriage is less about personal happiness and more about seeking holiness! Many years ago I read these quotes on marriage in a book: “Marriage was instituted to make us chaste and to
32 people join me in discussing why we lose friends after marriage and what we can do to maintain these friendships. The one thing that never crosses your mind when you’re getting married is the possibility of losing your close friends. Because you never wish to be apart from them. You always think they will
Do you believe in the romantic spark that sets a relationship in motion? Are you looking for one in the girl or boy you’re seeing presently? We are sometimes led to believe that the person we finally marry must have this instantaneous intoxicating connection with us. A sign- a pressing indication that together life would
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Have you ever wondered why the Orthodox Christian marriage is different from other Christian marriages? Read on to find out. This blog post is only an attempt by me to understand the Christian marriage from the Orthodox point of view. Many young Orthodox Christians participate in the marriage ceremony without a clear idea about the
Listening is so basic in love that we often take it for granted. Yet we all resent over events when we weren’t taken seriously by our loved ones or were criticized for not paying attention. Why is listening so important in love? How can we become better listeners? Read on to find out. Nothing is
Are you terrified of getting married or do you feel you’re not ready enough? Have you been witnessing all the disappointing stories around marriage? What can you do to overcome the fear of marriage? Here are my thoughts. I have a friend who got really anxious around her wedding time. She was a strong independent
When someone you trust puts you down what do you do? Do you protest, do you avoid the tough conversations or do you just play the victim? Read on to know how I took control of my tasks once I let go of self-pity In 2018 this blog “Being Rubitah” became an additional commitment in
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